Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Haircuts & Swimming pools - 15 month Update

Memorial day....ahhh...a long weekend and I couldn't have needed it more! My husband seemed to think it was unamerican not to eat a chili dog on the holiday so he indulged himself as well as his boys! Yes...the boys each polished a full chili dog with bun each. We didn't take a picture but I am sure you can visualize it yourself. We spent the weekend relaxing, using our bike trailer for the first time on our newly paved extended walking path which now goes all the way to our house. Gone are the days of packing up the car to drive 1 mile to the start of the walking path. The path has also displaced some animals which has added a turtle to our family. It's no small turtle either. Probably weighs a good 40 pounds. You know the big ones that they have in the zoo? It's a smaller version of that. We had cut through the tree path shortly after we were married 4 years ago and saw him. After the construction started on the path he picked our place to dig his house. We have decided to name him BUD so I'll try to remember to keep you updated on him. We have video but I'm not that good at linking video to the blog. :)
Outside of our walk and our relaxing we also got the boys into the pool for the first time this year. Colston was all into it. Even trying to put his head under. Miles is a little timid about the water and prefers his feet on the ground. He was okay once in the floater but had a nice death grip when we were just holding him in the water.
The twins turned 15 months old. Where oh where did the time go? Activities that were once just a normal thing are now major events. Let's take for example the Doctor's office. Both of the boys can walk now and Chris was coming to the appointment so I decided to brave it and go strollerless to the appointment. The waiting room was empty so in true form Colston sat in one place and Miles ran circles around the room chasing the train that was circulating. Time to whip out the snacks. Miles was back in 2 second flat. This worked good for the waiting room but when we got called back and the snacks were put away. Time for a full meltdown. I have two boys and I have two hands. God didn't put an extra arm on me anywhere to be able to manage two kids and disperse snacks at the same time! So normal routine....close me in a small room, strip down your kids, and meet us in the weigh station. Okay. Where is my husband? Late - with no cell phone to let me know. Darn it. Okay - we can do this...I say to myself silently kicking myself for both the lack of the stroller and now the lack of Colston's blanket. Colston has a fear of anyone new and has decided to scream anytime I sit him down. We make it into the weighing room and Miles does fine while Colston screams since I can't hold them both. While Colston is arching his back in a acrobatic attempt to jump off the scales I have Miles trying to run out of the room to say hi to all of the nurses. (he is the flirt) We have to try to weigh Colston twice and measure him twice with two nurses. She says she "got it" but apparently got the measurments wrong because when the Dr comes in he says Colston either has shrunk and lost weight or he needs to be measured again. My knight in shining armor then appears (daddy) and tricks cole into being weighted. Whew! Due to the events we aren't very confident in this month's weigh in but here are the stats:
Miles
Weight = 22lbs 4.5 oz (25th percentile)
Height = 30 inches (20th percentile)
Head = 19 inches (80th percentile)

Colston
Weight = 22lbs 9 oz (25th percentile)
Height = 31 1/2 inches (60th percentile)
Head = 18 inches (70th percentile)

Overall the weight surprises me as I think both of them are heavy for their age. I plan to get out the home scales to compare soon. With growing boys come growing hair. I would say verging on the unmanageable side and almost embarrassing when we were back in Indiana. It's been "on the list" to get haircut but something else always comes first. That was until I picked the kids last week and Miles had a mohawk. The teachers had wet his hair on the playgound and formed all of his hair into a mohawk so large I couldn't stop at target to run errands on the way home. The scissors came out that night. Miles fought it with all of his might. He must have liked the attention from the ladies on the playground. Colston - just sat there looking crabby as always. So the curls are gone and big boy haircuts are here.

Personalities are still the same as they have been. No big changes or updates. Miles has grown fond of a stuffed puppy dog lately and they both have enjoyed with playing with non-traditional toys such as empty diaper boxes or pieces of cardboard. They spend lots of time fighting over the same toys. They steal each others drinks and snacks frequently and a new game is to lock each other on the opposite side of the gate. They have learned first one through can shut it hard enough to lock the other out. Which results in high pitched squeals. It's still all fun -- a lot of work but fun!









Lot in Life

I've decided that having a blog can be hard sometimes. Don't get me wrong I love keeping the family updated but I've decided it hard to have a blog that truly reflects the crawford family through an update as sometimes the update isn't always a fun thing. I've decided that every blog will start with .... "I'm sorry it's taken me so long to update" because of this reason or that. I've realize that there never is enough time to get everything done. But I've also realized that it's all about priorities. Taking the time each day to do the things that mean the most to you and never looking back with regret on what we wish we would have done differently in our lives.

The past month has been one that I'll never forget. After spending 2 full weeks in Florida with us my mom went back to Indiana and passed away exactly two weeks later. During my time in Indiana both before and after mom's passing I realized how great my family is. You see when I was home in Jan after my mom's brain surgery there was one night when she was tired of taking her pills she looked at me and asked when it was all going to end. She didn't feel like there was any end in sight with all of the drugs, surgery, and endless trips to the Dr. There wasn't any good answer to that question. But then she said to me with all sincerity that "If this is the lot in life that has been dealt to me I can't complain at all." She was happy with her family, proud of her kids, and admist a deadly disease felt she had been given a "good life". I find peace in knowing that she felt that way and hopeful that I can live my life in a way to make me feel as at peace with my "lot in life."

No one gets to know when our end is. A reality that was brought to life when another family member was also swept away just a couple weeks after my mom. He was at an age when dreams are just becoming a reality. When you think you have your whole life in front of you. There was no advance notice, no time to tell him what a great guy he was, or how much we loved him.

To all of those that have passed we remember you! Your life lives on in the grandchildren and children that you left behind. We know you are in a better place and although we miss you dearly we know someday we will meet again.

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me,
And I'm not there to see
If the sun should rise and find your eyes,
all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand.
He said my place was ready In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind All those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye
For all my life I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, So much left yet to do,
It seemed impossible That I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared
And all the fun we had.
So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me
I'm right here, in your heart.